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Caring for the elders is a rewarding job, be it a paid employment in a nursing home or looking after an elderly relative. However, this is a mentally stressful role that may leave you exhausted to the point of desolation. Care giving requires patience and compassion and not all are able to perform this function easily. The job of care giving is easier if it is your own relative; however, it is difficult to develop the required qualities if you are taking up a paid job. Irrespective of whom you are caring for, you need to protect your own mental health in order to do your job efficiently. You can do a number of things to keep up your own perspective and mental health. A few tips are given below:

? Take regular breaks:
Spending some time away from the elderly person you are looking after will give you the chance to relax and be away from the pressure of the job. This could be a five minute break from the work or one day off to do something you like. This will give both of you the space required to collect your thoughts and refresh yourselves. This helps to keep sight of your perspective and help to perform your role better.

? Participate in activities that both enjoy:
Activities that both enjoy promote bonding and the common interests you share helps to build a strong base for your coexistence. If you are taking care of a stranger, you need to get to know them better. A family member is more familiar with you, so you can spend a relaxing time, together.

? Make arrangements to suit you both:
The elderly like their independence and therefore, most of them will not expect you to be present with them throughout the day. There may be others who want you at their beck and call. You can agree on the times you will drop by to look upon them and how you will be spending the time together. This however, is not applicable to caregivers at the retirement or nursing home.

? Establish a routine:
Setting up a routine will help the elderly to know what to expect from you and be comfortable with you. A change in the routine may upset the elderly and incite negative feelings. Most aged people do not like change and a set routine is reassuring for them. This will help you perform your role of caregiver smoothly, and may also prevent any complications that may arise in future.

? Seek professional help:
Taking care of an elderly person is stressful to say the least. If you find that this role is leading to depression, then you must speak to a professional counselor who can provide you some help in resolving the problem. Unburdening yourself with a counselor can be a good therapy for depression, and it will help you to continue your role of caregiver.

The tips mentioned above may or may not prove beneficial to you, because it all depends on your individual circumstances. Therefore, the caregiver should study the situation and find out what works best for both.

Abhishek successfully runs an Old Age Home and he has got some great Eldercare Secrets up his sleeves! Download his FREE 80 Pages Ebook, “How To Take Great Care Of Elders” from his website http://www.Senior-Guides.com/560/index.htm . Only limited Free Copies available.

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Caring for the elders is a rewarding job, be it a paid employment in a nursing home or looking after an elderly relative. However, this is a mentally stressful role that may leave you exhausted to the point of desolation. Care giving requires patience and compassion and not all are able to perform this function easily. The job of care giving is easier if it is your own relative; however, it is difficult to develop the required qualities if you are taking up a paid job. Irrespective of whom you are caring for, you need to protect your own mental health in order to do your job efficiently. You can do a number of things to keep up your own perspective and mental health. A few tips are given below:

? Take regular breaks:
Spending some time away from the elderly person you are looking after will give you the chance to relax and be away from the pressure of the job. This could be a five minute break from the work or one day off to do something you like. This will give both of you the space required to collect your thoughts and refresh yourselves. This helps to keep sight of your perspective and help to perform your role better.

? Participate in activities that both enjoy:
Activities that both enjoy promote bonding and the common interests you share helps to build a strong base for your coexistence. If you are taking care of a stranger, you need to get to know them better. A family member is more familiar with you, so you can spend a relaxing time, together.

? Make arrangements to suit you both:
The elderly like their independence and therefore, most of them will not expect you to be present with them throughout the day. There may be others who want you at their beck and call. You can agree on the times you will drop by to look upon them and how you will be spending the time together. This however, is not applicable to caregivers at the retirement or nursing home.

? Establish a routine:
Setting up a routine will help the elderly to know what to expect from you and be comfortable with you. A change in the routine may upset the elderly and incite negative feelings. Most aged people do not like change and a set routine is reassuring for them. This will help you perform your role of caregiver smoothly, and may also prevent any complications that may arise in future.

? Seek professional help:
Taking care of an elderly person is stressful to say the least. If you find that this role is leading to depression, then you must speak to a professional counselor who can provide you some help in resolving the problem. Unburdening yourself with a counselor can be a good therapy for depression, and it will help you to continue your role of caregiver.

The tips mentioned above may or may not prove beneficial to you, because it all depends on your individual circumstances. Therefore, the caregiver should study the situation and find out what works best for both.

Abhishek successfully runs an Old Age Home and he has got some great Eldercare Secrets up his sleeves! Download his FREE 80 Pages Ebook, “How To Take Great Care Of Elders” from his website http://www.Senior-Guides.com/560/index.htm . Only limited Free Copies available.

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Ministering to the Chronically Ill: 20 Ways That Take 20 Minutes

A survey recently conducted by Rest Ministries, the largest Christian organization that serves the chronically ill, asked people to “List some of the programs or resources a church could offer to make it more inviting comfortable.” Below is a sampling of some of the 800+ responses, all of which could be done in 20 minutes or less.


1. Send out encouraging emails.


2. Make sure the handicapped stalls in the restroom are functioning and clean.


3. Add padded chairs or cushions to make church easier to sit through. Room for wheelchairs is always a need and don’t forget to include extra places for family members.


4. An open attitude for a support group like HopeKeepers. It would make me feel very special that there was an understanding of needs that are not always visible.


5. Add more disabled parking, even if they are temporary spots.


6. Educate the ushers that people arriving late may have difficulty walking or getting out of cars and will need some assistance.


7. Have some volunteers who will call the chronically ill people just to check on them when they don’t make it to church.


8. When suppers are given, I need help getting my meal or at least understanding from others that I won’t be able to wait in a long line.


9. Be cautious when giving people big hugs. It can topple over or hurt the person.


10. Video tape the service to and put it on a DVD, don’t just do a live web cast. My computer doesn’t work that well.


11. Check out the church doors. Can someone with an illness open them with ease? If not, install a mechanical button to push them open.


12. Stop telling me that if I really believed and had faith I would be healed by now. Please don’t insist how good I look, because I know for a fact that I look terrible and miserable that day.


13. Offer me ways to serve within the church that can be performed regularly, but not on a set schedule. I really want to contribute, but I need some flexibility so that I can do a job when I feel well enough.


14. Make the sermon notes available to download and print out so I can listen later or even just review what I didn’t catch the first time.


15. Acknowledge National Invisible Chronic Illness Awareness Week. Rest Ministries Publishers features a book list of top 100 Christian books for the chronically ill. Having some of those books in our church bookstore as a display would be a great outreach.


16. Just mention chronic illness occasionally! Don’t forget to talk about it in sermons as one of the challenges many people face just like unemployment or divorce.


17. Have Christian volunteers from church that will clean house for small fee. Some have offered to clean my house, but I cannot accept charity yet, but neither can I afford to pay a regular house cleaning service.


18. Have the church help with some of the small costs of providing encouraging books and resources for the church library. The chronically ill often cannot afford all that they’d like to read and will check them out.


19. Remember all of the caregivers in the church–not just caregivers of parents, but spouses and ill children as well.


20. Have copies of sermon for free on CD or computer.

Receive 200 tips from “Beyond Casseroles: 505 Ways to Encourage a Chronically Ill Friend” by Lisa Copen when you sign up for HopeNotes chronic illness ezine at Rest Ministries. Lisa is the founder of Invisible Illness Awareness Week

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Five Ways to Improve Caregiver Communications Within the Family

Communication goes on in many ways: exchange of thoughts, messages, or information, as by speech, signals, writing or behavior. It is no surprise that most families develop a special and unique communications style. When we talk to our family members, not only do we search for signs of love, but we also look for signs of disapproval. When families come together for making decisions about the care of their parent, they may need to develop or reframe their communication skills.


Here are five ways to improve family communications:


1. Realize the family is a hierarchical institution. There is power of a parent over a child, of an older brother or sister over a younger one. There are shifting alliances between siblings.

As the parent ages, there is a reversal of the roles of helper and helped, and this can be disconcerting. Strive to find the balance so that the needs of one person do not impinge on the actions of the other.


2. Understand the power of being a good listener. Whether you are the caregiver or care-receiver, in most families we want someone to listen to us and to really understand what we are thinking, understanding, and saying. It is not unusual for family members to realize they have never really known very much about real feelings and values of each other. When we concentrate more on listening attentively, our relationships improve, and so do our communications.


3. Learn to be a good speaker who can clearly express ideas and feelings AND help the listener to hear the message. You can improve your odds of getting your message across if you use I statements rather than You statements. A family member is more likely to continue conversation if you say, I feel upset when you _________ instead of You make me upset when you _____________.


4. Become a problem solver. This does not mean just coming up with the answer, it also means finding a solution. Be realistic in your expectations. Allow siblings to help in ways they are able. Keep them informed and included in the caregiving process.


5. Show appreciation and gratitude. Human nature tells us that people respond favorably to those who show them genuine appreciation and gratitude. Just a simple thank you or apology can go a long way. Make a decision to make a positive impact on those around you.


If poor family communication is hindering your decision making process, it may be a good idea to hold a family meeting with a formal decision making process. You may have to enlist the help of an outside facilitator.

Rebecca Colmer is an elder Care Advocate, Author, Speaker, Publisher, and Caregiver. You can find more caregiving tools and resources at her website:
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Ten Quick Ways to Make Money

Everyone could use some extra money, particularly in hard times. Perhaps the bills were a little more than you’d expected this month, or maybe you’re trying to raise some starter cash for your own internet startup or business. As the first article in an ongoing series, here are ten handy ideas to bring in some extra money.

Donate blood

Blood banks will often pay $20-$40, up to twice a week.

People often overlook this, but it’s a good way to make money providing a desperately-needed service. Donating blood is traditionally done through the Red Cross on a volunteer basis, but many blood collection services will compensate donors for between $20 and $40 per donation… and donors can often donate twice a week. It’s a good way to help out both you and your fellow man. You’ll want to check in your Yellow Pages for blood banks and hospitals local to your area, and call around. Be aware that California does not allow financial compensation for blood, and seems to insist that doing the good deed of providing blood cannot involve enlightened self-interest in any way. Also take note that the FDA has forbidden people who it considers to be at a high risk of HIV from donating at any price whatsoever, and would-be donors who admit to having had male-male sexual intercourse since 1977 are rejected on the basis that they “might have been exposed to HIV” – despite the fact that being at risk is not limited to any one sexual orientation. I haven’t spoken with any blood bank staff who agree with this policy, but they all seem to perpetuate it through their enforcement of it regardless. For many who find that desperate financial times require considering unconventional sources of raising money – particularly students, although increasingly anyone in the middle-class – donating blood on a paid basis is an approach that works.

If you donate, you will want to be sure to eat immediately beforehand and to drink lots of water – to replace that lost fluid. Donating too often can cause temporary physical weakness and exhaustion, and if it’s done in the same place too frequently without enough time to rest up it can result in some scarring of veins around the withdrawl area. Rotating sites and giving your veins a chance to rest up is generally a good idea.

Donate bone marrow

Donating bone marrow like this can make you $450 in a few hours.

While it hasn’t yet gained as much noteriety as donating blood, many college students are finding that they can donate their bone marrow for quick cash. Over six thousand people seek bone marrow transplants each day, desperate for the marrow that could save their lives. A recipient can only accept marrow that matches their marrow type, and so the potential for donors decreases significantly for any one recipient bent on finding that matching donor. And donors aren’t in high supply… yet. That won’t be the case soon as this approach continues to grow in popularity.

Most people tend to think that donating bone marrow requires surgery, and this used to be the case. Today, it’s done with a needle and an incision that’s so small it doesn’t even require stitches. Nor does it require a hospital stay – donors frequently drive themselves to their appointment, and drive themselves back home afterwards. Within seven to fourteen days, they’re back to normal. Bone marrow generally goes for:

$125 for 25 cubic centimeters, $200 for 50 cubic centimeters, and $450 for 100 cubic centimeters

Additionally, white blood cells can be donated for about $350 in a procedure that lasts approximately five hours. A longer process, involving daily injections to raise the white blood cell counts, takes three to four days and pays $750. Lidocain, a topical anasthaetic, is used to numb the pain of injection on the skin, although this does not affect the pain that occurs when the marrow is actually drawn out of the bone. One donor, a college student, described it as hurting “really frickin bad”. He also described the pain as increasing with each withdrawal on a given day. Since 25 cubic centimeters of marrow are drawn into each syringe, there are two marrow draws each, from either side of the pelvic bone. General anaesthetic is available at the discretion of the doctor overseeing the process, and the donor maintains communication with the doctor throughout the procedure regarding the level of pain he is currently experiencing.

While certainly not the most pleasant means of raising money, marrow donation is one of the few legal means of raising over $100 dollars an hour over four hours. In increasingly desperate economic conditions more people are turning less-orthodox methods of making money, and the idea hasn’t yet become as prevalently-known as blood donation.

Appallingly, many facilities who perform the procedures for bone marrow donation do not make that information widely-known, in order to prevent financially-desperate and, in their view, health-suspect donors, from donating marrow. This includes one facility I spoke with which had recently been documented as financially compensating a marrow donor in an article describing the procedure. They replied matter-of-factly that they do not compensate their donors, although the donor himself wrote his own article in a firsthand account, providing more information and even pictures of the procedure. Evidently, facilities take the view that it is better to let some people in dire financial situations die from being rejected from the procedure, than risk accepting donors who might be “at risk”… which, from the position of other authorities such as the FDA, is both unrealistic and subjectively-defined. Be aware of this problem if you attempt to donate bone marrow.

Do a few odd jobs through local online resources

Using online resources like Craigslist and GenieTown is simple – it’s designed to be.

Easier and more painless than these are doing odd jobs in your local area. Painting jobs, for example, can be very lucrative in a short span of time. Construction sites also need manpower, and many pay well. Folks who are advancing in years and finding it more difficult to do yardwork also often need assistance, and often receive significant retirement money from the government, resulting in levels of disposable income that are disproportionate to the rest of society. Some of them even require live-in care, not only to take care of them physically but also to attend to needs such as mere cooking and housekeeping. A live-in caretaking job can often be arranged that will eliminate rent expenses while providing a small amount of income for the caregiver at the same time. In-home caregiving is the fastest-growing job in America as many citizens reach retirement age, and in fact more Americans are retiring than are working. A live-in caregiving job can be ideal for people who also work online, since they can be on-site for the majority of the time.

All of these jobs and many more can be found in your local area through online sources like GenieTown and Craigslist. It’s worth keeping an eye out for, and Craigslist even has an RSS feed for each of its areas, so keeping up with it is easy, right from your desktop if you’d prefer. Checking the classified ads in your local newspaper might be worthwhile as well.

Tap the unused potential of the homeless

People on the streets are often motivated, and simply lack opportunities to apply their potential.

While you’re looking through the ads for people in your area who want services anyway, consider that there are people in dire circumstances whose work potential remains untapped – people who are homeless. Contrary to popular belief, many of those on the street desperately want to work, but do not have access to resources, like the internet or the ability to make phone calls, that are necessary to arrange it. Acting as a go-between for people on the street and painters or construction crews who need the manpower can be prosperous for all involved. Earning a finder’s fee, or a percentage, from connecting them together yourself can be a mutually-beneficial relationship. You may even consider creating a housecleaning service using primarily homeless manpower to staff it, and advertising it for free in your local area on Craigslist. Or a carwash. These people could use the money, and have huge amounts of manpower collectively that is just going to waste because they cannot apply it effectively. You, however, can. Make money while creating something that will provide a constructive approach to solving the homeless problem in your area, and you will have two bites at the cherry. You will also have access to a resource, untapped manpower, that most people seeking ways to make money – and who are to some extent competing with you in the market – have not even considered. This will put you ahead of the game.

Connect with paid posting jobs online

You can make some quick cash being paid to post on forums.

You’ve probably considered writing on a site like HubPages because you can write, because you enjoy writing, and because you’d like to get paid for it. In addition to paid articles from sites like HubPages, Helium and Triond, and even paid letter-writing sites like LetterRep and paid product review sites like epinions and ReviewStream, paid forum posting is a particularly interesting concept from a writer’s perspective. The basis for forum posting is that with new websites springing up on a constant basis – and many wilting away to nothing just as quickly – it becomes difficult for the creators of those websites and forums to build a base of users. It’s the ghost town phenomenon – and few will be inclined to join and return to a forum that has no users or activity yet. With no-one joining, this problem dashes the hopes of a typical website forum to get started. Forum creators all over the net with less-than-earthshattering premises for their websites and forums have started to pay people to start the ball rolling, through “pay per post” sites. These sites register new users, allow them to select a paying forum to post on, and collects commission for partnering writers willing to post with forum owners who need the activity to keep their sites alive. PostingDirect is one such site, and offers an advancing scale of 10 to 65 cents per post (depending on the user’s feedback from previous jobs), for jobs consisting of 10 or 20 posts. These forum posts are not meant to be timeless works of literary skill, and naturally aren’t expected to be as long as HubPages articles by any means. They are meant to inspire conversation and dialogue on inactive forums. The prospect of earning $1.30 for two short forum posts is certainly an attractive one, and the concept can get even better when combined with the next tip.

Put your bookmarks to work!

You can earn ad revenue – and referral money – sharing links on GemStorm.

If you’ve used sites like HubPages for a bit, you know that you can make money writing articles like this one online. But wouldn’t it be nice to make money by turning people onto a cool website you’ve discovered, or that music video? As of this April, GemStorm has gone into public beta. There you can post a link to a website, game, video or just about anything else and, like HubPages, it will share Google AdSense revenue with you 50/50. This means that you can put your bookmarks to work, and they can be working for you just as your HubPages articles do – without the writing articles part! What’s more, when you refer someone to GemStorm, you’ll be

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Playing Caregiver – 5 Ways To Spread Positive Vibes!

The role of a caregiver can be very stressful and coping with the emotional drain is a difficult challenge. There is the additional emotion of anger to cope with when the things do not go well or the feelings of resentment towards other siblings for not sharing the responsibility or even towards the parent as being the cause for all the emotional drain on you. Balancing your work, home and private life along with fulfilling the role of a caregiver can be a juggling act that few can manage well. Just as you may find the balance, the needs of your elderly parent change and you are drawn back into another stressful situation.

In order to cope with the stressful situations you may have to manage your time better to find some time for you and your family. These are not easy situations and one needs great self control and maturity to manage the stress involved. However, there is one emotion that can be said to compensate for the emotional drain that a caregiver experiences and that is thankfulness. You may be in the middle of a demanding situation and thankfulness is not usually an emotion in such times. Yet if you can be thankful for the opportunity to be the primary care giver to your parent, this positive emotion works wonders for your spirit. It helps to offset the negative emotions of anger and resentment. There are a number of things that one can be thankful for:
? You have the opportunity to repay your parents to a small extent for the sacrifices they made. All the effort, time and money that they invested in you to raise you as a good human being, is a debt that can never be repaid. But you have the occasion to return some of it in the form of caring for them in their old age. A small way to say ‘Thank you for being there for me, now I am there for you.’
? If you were not staying close to your parents at the time of their need, you would have been anxious and worried about their well being. Since you are with them, you have first hand knowledge of their health conditions and anticipate any other needs that may arise.
? With the elderly, there is something always coming up causing a setback to their spirits. They need someone to give them reassurance and say that everything is all right. You have that occasion and they depend on you for moral support.
? You, as the caregiver are very important to your aged parents. They need you. You have the good fortune to be at their side during their times of crisis.
? Celebrate the times spent with each other, and enjoy the joy and laughter that you are able to share with your parent. These are the pleasant memories that will remain with you forever.

Being with a loved one through tough times and offering support, brings a sense of satisfaction to the caregiver. The bond of love between you and your parent will deepen and stay with you for the rest of your life. You may be able to look back at these pleasant memories and be thankful for the opportunity to make the final months of their life peaceful and happy.

Abhishek successfully runs an Old Age Home and he has got some great Eldercare Secrets up his sleeves! Download his FREE 80 Pages Ebook, “How To Take Great Care Of Elders” from his website http://www.Senior-Guides.com/560/index.htm . Only limited Free Copies available.

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A caregiver’s role involves many emotions and striking a balance between these emotions is a challenge for the caregiver. However, if you separate the emotions from the tasks involved in care giving, much of the things like doing grocery shopping, or the laundry, paying the bills or handling the paperwork are pretty routine. Looking after your aging parents’ household chores is not caring. It is the emotional support you can provide to them in their twilight years that makes the difference.

If you are helping your elderly parent through the trial of coping with a terminal illness, they will need all the emotional support you can provide them. Although they may put up a brave front, they may be experiencing emotional turmoil due to the realization of the approaching end of their lives. As a caregiver your personal emotions at dealing with this reality, is grief. You have to try to cope with the grief together, as best as you can. At the funeral of an elderly person who has passed away due to a terminal illness, you often find that the primary caregiver is not grieving as much as the others. This is because he or she has been trying to cope with the idea for some time and has usually got used to it by then.

The two emotions associated with eldercare are compassion and pity. Your emotions as a care giver in the final months of the terminally ill elder have a direct effect on how you carry out the task of care giving. The emotion of pity involves feeling sorry for your parent’s suffering whereas the emotion of compassion will make you understand the need of your parent, apart from feeling the pain, and try to help in any manner possible.

As a care giver, you have to manage your emotions and influence your reaction to the elderly parent’s illness. A compassionate caregiver is most successful in his endeavor to make the elder’s life comfortable. There are three important factors to keep in mind to help manage your emotions and control your reactions to the difficult times that lie ahead, and these are:

? Focus your energies and attention on the person you are caring for and not on yourself. Focusing on them builds a bond between the two of you whereas focusing on yourself will breed resentment and self pity.
? Do not dwell on the problem, but instead try to find a solution to it. Focus on the solution to a problem and not on its effects. A good doctor will cure the disease, not the symptoms.
? Focus on the joyful moments and not on the grief and sadness. Take one day at a time and try to find moments of joy when your parents can share a good laugh with you or enjoy a meal or a good film. Being together and sharing the joys and also the pain is the core of the caregiver’s role.

Keeping these three facts in mind will help to keep your emotions under control. It will also help you to function out of compassion and not pity. This will help you to keep your perspective ease the pain and grief to some extent.

Abhishek successfully runs an Old Age Home and he has got some great Eldercare Secrets up his sleeves! Download his FREE 80 Pages Ebook, “How To Take Great Care Of Elders” from his website http://www.Senior-Guides.com/560/index.htm . Only limited Free Copies available.

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Caregiver Survival Tips – Three Ways to Stay Positive

Madelyn Kubin was recovering from open-heart surgery. She had osteoporosis, macular degeneration, restless leg syndrome, and severe hearing loss. She lived on a farm six miles from a town of 10,000 people in the middle of Kansas, and she had very little money. And then, just a few months after Madelyn?s 70th birthday, her husband suffered a debilitating stroke and she became his caregiver.

For the next six years Madelyn maintained her contact with the outside world, and perhaps her sanity, by writing letters in which she disengaged her emotional monitor and wrote openly to her daughter about what she was going through and how she felt about it.

There are many lessons for all caregivers in Madelyn?s experiences. Here are a few, illustrated with excerpts from the book Letters from Madelyn, Chronicles of a Caregiver:

Claim Some Time for Yourself

Set aside some time for yourself each day to do something you enjoy. Read, meditate, or go for a walk. Let your loved one know this is YOUR time, and you do not want to be disturbed.

Four months after her husband’s first stroke, Madelyn wrote:

?The one place where I don?t give in to Quentin is when I want to sit up and read at night. He never wanted me to do that when he was well. Now he says he can?t sleep if the light is on, and the noise of the turning pages bothers him. He never has any trouble sleeping in the daytime. The dishwasher can be going, the TV can be on and the sweeper running and he can sleep without any problem. I told him last night to not worry if he couldn?t sleep while I was reading, because he wouldn?t have any trouble when it?s daytime and I?m working. I need some time for myself, and if he can?t sleep, he will just have to stay awake.?

Get the Right Equipment

Installing the right equipment will enable your loved one to maintain some independence, and it will protect you from unneeded physical strain.

In this letter Madelyn describes some simple adjustments that made a big difference:

“I came up with an idea in the middle of the night that Quentin approves of. Our bathroom door opens back toward the toilet stool, and it is so hard for him to get around it. I suggested we take the door off and have it open the other way.

By changing the way the door swings, Quentin can use his walker to get into the bathroom. As it is now, he has to use the cane, and that is not very satisfactory when he is so wobbly.

I?m also going to buy a plastic pad like they use under office chairs. That should make it a lot easier for him to scoot his chair up to and away from the dining room table. It will also make cleaning up spills a lot easier.

Get Out in Nature

Caregivers spend a lot of time cleaning up messes and performing distasteful tasks. Getting out in nature, even if it is only in your own backyard, can relieve stress and provide a pleasant diversion.

Madelyn wrote:

“This morning I looked out and saw a Blue Jay taking his bath, and before long there was a beautiful big red bird. He took a long time deciding if he wanted to get in the water or not, but he finally took a nice leisurely bath. When I looked out and saw him, I almost gasped. We will probably get a lot of interesting birds during the migration season. I?m putting out fresh water for them morning and night. It makes the kitchen work more interesting.”

Madelyn Kubin survived her caregiving experience by taking care of herself physically, mentally, and spiritually. Although there is nothing that can make the job of caregiving easy, there are resources and support groups that can help a person cope with it.

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Elaine K. Sanchez, author of the tender, gritty, and uproariously funny book, Letters from Madelyn, Chronicles of a Caregiver speaks to audiences across the country about finding hope and humor in aging, illness, and long-term caregiving. For a free Caregiver

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Golden Ways of Caring for the Elderly

All of us share similar concerns about health care for our parents, grandparents and loved ones when they reach the retirement age and as long as they survive after that. If you have an elderly member in your house who gets confused and can’t keep her doctor appointments and medications straight or seems depressed and doesn’t enjoy anything which he or she used to enjoy during youth, then it is time that you need to offer them a strong helping hand. In how many way can you actually help your senior at home?

Some of them are the following:

Helping in Alzheimer?s disease: When an old citizen is suffering from Alzheimer’s, then he or she needs regular attention while you’re at work. Elder Home Care can do the needful and stand by you in good stead.

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Senior Care – 5 Ways to Provide Support for a Caregiver

Being a caregiver takes a lot of time and effort, especially if someone is caring for a person with Alzheimer’s or some sort of dementia. Caregivers can easily get burned out or suffer health challenges of their own if they don’t get the breaks and support that they need. Family members and friends can help out in many ways. If someone you know is a caregiver, here are some ways that you can give them the help that they need.

Encouraging Notes

A great way to show your support for a caregiver is to send them a short encouraging note. We all like to hear an encouraging word from time to time. This doesn’t have to be a written note. In fact, a quick email will work just fine, and while you are at it you may even want to include a link to their favorite comic or a funny story just to brighten their day.

Send Them an E-card

There are many websites today that allow you to send free e-cards that are beautifully done. For example, www.hallmark.com and www.dayspring.com offer some wonderful e-cards. Consider sending one that will make them smile or give them a good laugh for the day. This could be just what they need on those days when they just need a little help smiling, and a good laugh would be just the thing to lighten their day.

Give the Caregiver a Short Break

Give the caregiver a short break for a few hours one evening and let them go out to a movie, restaurant or some other place that they enjoy. Offering to watch the loved one, even for a few hours, can mean a lot, and often is just what the caregiver needs to recharge their batteries.

Run Errands, Handle Details

Another way to provide support for a caregiver is to run some errands or take care of some other tasks for them so they don’t have to deal with them. Caring for a loved one can not only be physically demanding at times, but it can also be very mentally taxing. Often, just not having to worry about other details can provide welcome relief. If you are good with numbers or details maybe you can offer to assist the caregiver with some forms or paperwork, or take care of some other details for them.

Weekend Getaways

Occasionally, a weekend getaway or short vacation may be the best thing that you can do for a caregiver. Make all of the necessary arrangements for taking care of the loved one, so that the caregiver can focus on their trip. This is a great way that siblings or other family members can step up and provide needed relief for caregivers. This can be especially nice for caregivers that enjoy travel and used to take trips, but now find themselves having to stay close to home. Maybe its a trip to the mountains or to the beach where they can relax and enjoy some beautiful scenery. Most of all the break will be good for their mental and physical health, and when they return they will be more refreshed to care for the loved one.

This is just a few ways that you, as a close friend or family member, can support the primary caregiver. Over the years we have been blessed to have family members and close friends that have teamed up with us to care for a loved one with Alzheimer’s. Some of these tips that I’ve shared have meant a lot, at times, for the primary caregiver.

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Rich Herman has been providing support for caregivers for over 8 years. He provides caregiver tips and caregiver resources on his website: http://www.caregiver-support.com

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